Updating:

W is increasingly nicer and nicer, i do not see any manipulation here bc she asks for nothing in return. She starts convos with me regularly and I see a real difference in her attitude. I can now recognize when its time to back off, as she starts to pull away in our convos. Have not talked about D in I dont know how long, but its been a while.

She does not occupy my mind space anymore. I do not care where she is going and with who. She is making it known to me where she is kind of indirectly. I find it kind of humorous that after 27 years together we have to play these type of games.

I do not know whether or not she is changing her mind about getting D'ed and at this point it doesnt matter. I am here and she knows where I stand. If she wants to go full court press with the L's then I am ready.

W was going to wear a really nice mini skirt to work today but D23 and D19 put her on blast so W changed into pants. She will listen to the kids... lol


M:52 W:49
D:26 S:24 S:23 D:20
ILYBNILWY 5/28/17
Still living together
W filed 1/5/18
W moved out 8/24/18
D final 9/18/20