Oh one other thing I failed to mention. On the drive home from the retreat, she even admitted that it was hard to give up on the dream of getting a job and getting her own place. This shows the thinking of the WW, where that dream or illusion or fog-induced ideal is hard to let go of. She was wanting to. She even felt she needed to. But it was difficult because for at least 2 months (and even longer since it started before BD) she had convinced herself that that was exactly what she wanted and needed to be happy.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018