Can I really do this #2

[Dtrmned]

FUN update...

W calls and is upset that we are in a touch of a disagreement about how to deal with our D's grades. I voiced my opinion, she voiced hers. We discussed the united front situation. We talked, I listened, then she went into a rant about how she is positive I am seeing someone else (I'm not) since I am working out, looking better, more positive and happy. She said "everyone knows your attitude is fake and that it won't last". Responded that I didn't know what she meant by fake, I was just working on and am happier at the present time. She then went on to jab pretty hard. "You will be in a relationship within 2 months of me leaving. Men are weak and can't stand to be alone. All you want is just to get laid. " Wow, pretty harsh words followed by "you will find someone, sweep her off her feet, then destroy that marriage like you did ours". So 20 years of "faking" my way through, I'm pretty amazing and should head to hollywood!

She hung up. I called back and asked to speak to our D. She put her on the phone, I reiterated and backed up everything my W said and got off the phone. W calls back even more upset that. "how could you do this?" What, support you in what YOU thought was right?

Way off the rails today and its only the first day (D had her last half day today) of summer break.

I did threaten to go ahead and come home and talk to D directly and W asked "why, are you just trying to punish me by coming home?"

She then said I was dragging my feet in the D situation again by saying that anything regarding business I am straight on and would have it done. I asked "did the mediator you called get back to you yet?" She said no. Responded that I didn't know what else she wanted me to do. She said "I just want out of this house and done with you. I'm ready to just throw everything out the window just to get out."

This is going to get way harder as it progresses. Whether there is a chance to get better and recon or not, unsure.