Honestly, she is who she is and always was. She showed you her true colors from the start and there was every red flag. It's hard when you are so smitten with someone, but she is who she showed you she is from the beginning.
My ex was the same. Sometimes we just look past all those huge blaring red flags in the name of love or hoping someone will change.
it's a lesson learned, for sure.
Really its like having two sets of hindsight at the same time. I look back and see all the red flags and warnings, but at the EXACT SAME TIME when i look back i simultaneously see this amazing woman who I was smitten with.The Duality is very challenging.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
