Except that this is standard play from the WW/WAW playbook. Almost all of them say "I feel trapped" especially if they don't get their way with the LBH leaving the house, the MBR, doing the D work, etc. No one can make her feel trapped except herself.
Correct, when she is "pitching" her excuses as to why she wants out. I was referring to the WW's depression and truly feeling as if there is no escape for her. I felt it when I made the hard decision to end my A. I immediately felt as if I was doomed to live in an unhappy M. And, I might add.....it was before the grieving process even had time to begin.
The WW in this case, is suffering from serious depression. She had not been grieving the OM, if she was preparing to be with him. If the OM dumped her, or something else happened to end her plans to be with OM......then she could feel trapped in the MR. Thus, her desperation to end it.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
