Ok, I've been told to "Just get over it and not think about it" one too many times.
I'm done.
Deuces.
That is not what you are being told to do at all. We aren't telling you to get over it. We are telling you where you should concentrate on not wasting your energy looking for something you are never going to find. Apologies, explanations, none of that is going to happen. Or in a way that will be satisfying to you.
We have all been there. Our advice comes from your position once upon a time.
You want to peace out, feel free. But I think you respond so quickly and don't really stop to understand the context and reasons of what we are posting to you.
You can be mad at her. You can still be upset by all of this.
In time you will learn the 180's and GAL are for you, not her.
And you won't care if she notices are not. because who seriously goes out to make their own life the best it can be for someone else to notice? I make my life the best for me because I want to enjoy this life independent of others!
You'll get there when you are ready, but you are definitely in that toes dug in the sand place where you aren't hearing the true meaning behind out advice.
