Steve, my thought is that once they have made the decision to file, a huge weight has been lifted off their shoulders, and they are more upbeat and positive. This might be what you are seeing in her texts, so be prepared to hear it when you get together. And if she does want to D, just like people have said on your thread, "I'm sorry you feel that way. I won't stop you. I feel differently, and won't help you either," or something along those lines.

Is she in an A? Who knows? But it doesn't really matter. Your reaction should be calm if it does come out.


M:23 T:26
Me:53, Wife: 60
S:18
D:16
filed 7/16
W moved out 4/28/17