I actually don't mind people disagreeing with my advice, but you were disagreeing with just about everyone today that was responding to you. It was like OK wanted to wallow in a woe is me moment and didn't want to hear anything that was intended to help him out of it.

My advice is my perspective, based on what people have revealed. I have no expectation that it is ever right for a given sitch. But you just seemed so quick to get defensive with Joe. I've dealt with people long enough to know when they've closed off to anything other than enabling and hearing what they want to hear.

I think when you look back at your threads in 6-12 months you'll have a different perspective. You'll see where your wild swings in emotions are alarming for those of us that don't know you above a screen name and a few thousands typed words on a forum.

And look at your input on other people's threads! You've given some great input when you have, but then readily admitted that you aren't great taking advice, even the advice you've dished out! Just food for thought.

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M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018