Advice on My Scenario Pt. 8 - No Anger, Know Peace

[OrangeK]

So her hesitation to answer made you think there was hope?

Seems that way.

It is the first time you were in the same room together, and could hear each other voices, in months. You don't think that had anything to do with her hesitation?

I have no idea honestly. I cant predict or guess her behavior at all anymore.

She Could have been she expected you to jump in and say yes

This is pretty much what i did.

My actual reply to judge was
"My intention when putting the hold order on was to wait until the other matter (criminal case) had been resolved so the RO would be gone and her and I could handle this amicably through mediation or reconciliation, then i was made aware that WW specifically requested the TRO to be extended, so we havent had a chance to talk"
JUDGE: "So then theres no plan of reconciliation?"
WW: *went to say something and paused*
Me: "Well as ive said your honor, i haven been unable to speak to Mrs. WW so there hasnt been any chance of that happening, so No.
JUDGE: *Glances at WW*
WW: "......No"

not because she wanted it but because she expected you to want it. Or maybe she was ready for the question so she wanted to see if you would jump in an answer before she did? Or maybe she hesitated on all of the questions posed to her by the judge (IDK, I wasn't there).

She barely said much else. Just Yes No and whatnot.
Id say her actions with extending the TRO speak loudest, but i also feel like shes still running and hiding from the reality of the situation.

Who knows, but I would try to view it objectively. What have all of her actions been in all the time that the TRO has been in place? Actions mean more than words. Actions mean more than lack of words. Does her hesitation at the judge's question trump all of her actions?

Exactly, See above. Her actions have been, extending the TRO, not talking to me, being very short and curt when she does.
She treats me like i am some awful abusive jerk, when i didnt do anything like that at all. ever.