In the end it is your decision, your choice...if you want to reach out to her and ask all the questions then do so. If you think you will get those answers then go for it.
I do want to, badly, but i know i wont get the answers i want and it will only make my situation more complicated and make me look like a pursuing beta. If i ever get any of those answers they will be un asked for. I never said i was GOING to reach out to her. I came here to vent so i didnt. If i asked things like that it would be a violation of my TRO. Im not stupid, im not screwing myself over just to elevate her leverage.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
