You will never make sense of what happened. TBH it is best if you just move on with your life. Easier said than done, I know but in the long run you will be better off for it.
Everyone keeps saying that, but its not like a button or a switch to be flipped. Ive tried, im trying. Easier said than done is the understatement of the year. I feel awful when i admit this, but i had an easier time grieving the death of my brother. I know why, i understood it. I know all the pieces and parts that lead up to this horrific event, it took a long time to heal from, but not like its been with this WW situation. And here's the rub, my other brother still struggles with the death of our eldest brother A LOT. Would ANYONE ever tell him to "Just move on with his life" regarding the death of a sibling? No way, not in a million years. that would be so taboo to say. So why is a marital affair any different? I think it speaks loudly of the state of marriage in the US when "Get over it and move on" is the adage of the day when dealing with this.
Im not trying to be hard on you Joseph, i appreciate your input a lot. its just a very frustrating thing to keep being told when my response has always been "Don't you wish i could just move on? Do you think i want to feel this way?"
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
