My ex husband got his nuts cut open to start a family. He was born with what is called "congenital absence of the vas deferens" What we had to do to have our child was insane, and it included having sperm surgically extracted from his balls.
Sounds like a guy who really wants to have a family and be a dad, right?
Nah, part-time was enough for him, and on his terms. Sounds nuts, doesn't it? No pun intended!
and FWIW, I was a really good wife. I tolerated so much crap. Everyone thought I would be the one to leave him. I lived and breathed for him. It was never enough, unfortunately. when I had to pay some attention to myself (IVF, high risk pregnancy, early delivery, ect) he couldn't handle.
