SBJ

You do sound like you are doing well all things considered

Hope the shoulder recovery goes well

Assume you will have some weeks of physical therapy

It is a physical pain to go but have found it really works if done well

I wish i had a good mens group

Makes me think i should look harder

Now i want some venison sausage

Re your ex and her thoughts

Agree with AndrewP that there is no self awareness

I have had similar conversations with w and her being upset about how some cheating H is hurting her friend

No ability to connnect that to our own situation

Really head shaking

So glad the kids are well

I love 11

Such a great age before those teen issues kick in

And yes live when the kids and friends hang at our house

Can I hang by your pool and eat burgers too


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving