You do sound like you are doing well all things considered
Hope the shoulder recovery goes well
Assume you will have some weeks of physical therapy
It is a physical pain to go but have found it really works if done well
I wish i had a good mens group
Makes me think i should look harder
Now i want some venison sausage
Re your ex and her thoughts
Agree with AndrewP that there is no self awareness
I have had similar conversations with w and her being upset about how some cheating H is hurting her friend
No ability to connnect that to our own situation
Really head shaking
So glad the kids are well
I love 11
Such a great age before those teen issues kick in
And yes live when the kids and friends hang at our house
Can I hang by your pool and eat burgers too
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving