Have you tried to do any investigating to see what your husband is doing when he's not at home? If you could find out where he's going maybe that would provide a clue.
We work at the same workplace so I know his whereabouts, he has been doing home and office in fact much less socializing than I would want him to. Until a month ago I even had access to his financial accounts so I know up until then money was not moved in a suspicious manner. I do not suspect a PA for this reason, no missing time or furious expenditures. the phone secrecy began after he started shutting down on me, until then we freely used each other's phones. I am trying to understand what he may be really going through but its just all over the place.
