I really need to know what I need to say to W when she talks about wanting a D?
I assume it is something along the lines of "I do not believe in D, and this is what you want so you need to do it on your own" or something like that
I know to Detach, do not say ILY, listen and validate
what am I missing


M 40 W 34
Together 7 Married 2
No Kids
BD 1/18 need space
Moved out 2/18
ILYBNILWY & Asked for D 3/18
W filed for D 6/18
D final 10/18