I was 100% wrong there. You guys are spot-on with your comments. What I wrote was definitely based on a misguided view of the DB process.

As someone once said, "Trust the Process"

W 34 Me 42
Married 7 years together 8
0 kids 1 beloved dog
BD 4/6/2018
I moved out 4/7/2018
I moved back in alone 8/05/2018
I file 3/06/2019
D official 5/7/2019