Yeah, don't touch the subject of that article with a 10 foot pole. When spouse want out and don't have a good reason for that want, they will find anyway they can to justify that. This love bombing thing is a crock. Falling in love at the beginning of a relationship is natural. And that limerance phase doesn't last. Eventually you settle into a deeper loving relationship, which doesn't require constant affirmation of love, affection, and all the rest of what goes with the "falling in love" phase.
The problem is that many people are addicted to that phase. And once that phase naturally subsides they go looking for it elsewhere. That isn't love bombing, that is a natural maturation of a relationship.
Now, it is true that dominant and controlling people will eventually show their true colors after the limerance phase, but even that is overblown. Could you have been more loving? Understanding? Caring? Probably, since we all could be better about that. But that doesn't mean you are guilty of what this article is suggesting.
Let it lie. Keep 180ing, GAL (yes I know it is tough with kids), and being the best STH that you can be.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
