Is there any history of mental illness with your H or his family? Something about all this just doesn't seem right. I can't put my finger on it, but it is almost as if he just isn't thinking clearly. Live together after D? Why even get a D then? How is living together facilitate a 50-50 split of custody?
The phone usage is still a red flag, but part of me is thinking there is more going on here. Let me ask you a very sensitive question, is there any way he might be a homosexual? The reason I ask is that he could keep up the illusion of family, and throw off anyone that might shame him for it, while being free (after the D) to do what he wants to do.
I may be way off with that. I just don't see a lot of sense in what he is wanting.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
