Hi Nicole, just caught up on your updates, I fully understand the lows that you hit at times. I agree that we can all only judge your husband based on the limited info available on these threads and you would know him the best. I also agree that the unpardonable words he spoke about your D was in a burst of anger and he must not have really meant it given his behavior otherwise. But the truth he has still abandoned both of you while he is trying to find what he wants. So for LBSs like us who have difficulty accepting the changed person our S has become, we first need to find ourselves I think and get our self worth and self respect back to its place. I keep telling myself everyday that this is about Him and Not me and try getting through the day. At the end of the day, the children make it all worth it for us.
