"I said everytime her casual talks have a way of rising my Blood pressure."
Wow, that is a huge mistake. You are supposed to be detaching which is showing her you are emotionally stable no matter what she says or does. To come out and tell her that casual talks with her has a physical effect on you is just giving it up. You are supposed to be the rock by the shore.
Just my two cents. As AS says if R is your goal and your WAW wants to talk, TALK. Even if it is just mostly listening, acknowledging, and validating her feelings. You missed an opportunity and it could been at a crucial time.
Now, I say all that, don't go crawling back to her begging to have the talk now. Just let it lie, but if and when that opportunity arises again, cease the opportunity. Just be sure to be fresh on the detachment and validation threads.
Steve85 , i understand why u feel negative about this.in my perspective i was right to say that as she has been pounding me for quite sone tine with false accusations. SO I HAD TO STAND MY GROUND.i said that and also told her that I WAS DONE PLAYING HER GAMES. She did send ne an enail ro cancel car insurance after 2 days which I promptly did. I have nothing to fear here. I stood my ground for the first time after many years and ready to face the consequences.
M(35) F(35) T(6) M(6) BD 10/25/2017 S 3/12/2018 LRT 4/3 D Served 4/30 D Signed (Me) 5/1 D filed with Court 5/21 D Final 7/6 Moving on with life and doing lot of GAL since 7/6 :-)
