WW wants to reconcile. I'm being pursued.

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With regard to children, I do not believe in secrets. You are as weak as your secrets. Which is very weak. Do I think you should say horrible things about WW? No. But I do believe the truth will out any way and by keeping silent you ruin your R with your daughter. So a simple statement to her "D, I have something I want to tell you, your mum has been having an A with OM for x months. OM lives in another country but visits here. Your mom has told me it is over with OM and I am unsure of my position and how I feel. Other than sad. This isn't something I want to go to in depth with you today but I want you to know. This is a private family matter and for my sake I would like you to be confidential.

I'm not sure if this is a good idea. This past year, I did everything to hide this A from my D. I'm still wondering what might happen if I moved out the day I found out her A. Will she stop right then? If I told my D and her parent right away, will she continue her A this long?

I have to make an extremely careful about what I am going to tell my D. Because, once she knew I cannot make her forget. She is very happy right now that we live as a family again. She might go to boarding high school in USA next year. I don't want her to worry anything when she's away. I might tell her only if telling her will help her make a better decision of her situations when she has her own family.