I did in house detachment. I started with Txhubby philosophy, but that was too hardcore for my sitch. I was a terrible husband so Txhubby way didn't work. I just came off looking like an ahole to my W.
I later took on AS philosophy and started detaching with love and my W started to notice my changes. I was hard as hell at first but I kept trying different things to see what worked. I also had Sandi and 25 giving great advice and 2x4s.
I posted often and provided as much detail about every encounter I had with my W.
Each sitch is different and only you will know what is working.
This will be the hardest journey of your life, but detaching with love is what turned my W heart back around.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
