I replied to your comment on my thread, but I wanted to post here too. I read through all the comments on here and I find it very helpful to know that others are going through similar things as me, makes me fill not so alone. All of this talk of distancing, pursuit etc. is confusing for me too!! I've read the posts about it a few times, read the DR like 3 times and I'm still confused!
Hope we can all figure it out together and get through this horrible time one way or another!! Keep us updated on whats going on!
This is one of, if not, THE hardest thing I've ever been through. It's confusing, heartbreaking, stressful, etc. I know I need to be patient, but husband is just so confusing right now. He comes over pretty much every night to tuck in our son and then has some small talk with me and then heads to his apartment. He is slow to respond to texts, yet will call to check on me sometimes when I am slow to reply to him.
Yes, big hugs to you and I hope we can all figure all of this out together too.
Together for 13 years, married for 8. H is 46 I'm 40 S is 6 Bombdrop in April 2018 Still in limbo as of 2019
