I replied to your comment on my thread, but I wanted to post here too. I read through all the comments on here and I find it very helpful to know that others are going through similar things as me, makes me fill not so alone. All of this talk of distancing, pursuit etc. is confusing for me too!! I've read the posts about it a few times, read the DR like 3 times and I'm still confused!
Hope we can all figure it out together and get through this horrible time one way or another!! Keep us updated on whats going on!