Ciluzen, very interesting posts. I do enjoy reading your views about this. One that is resonating with me is letting go and how very complicated it is. I believe you have detailed the root cause of the complication very well. We all want to understand, to have some kind of a reason.

I do appreciate your dislike of labels and how it shuts the door to understanding a person. I was thinking about how labels limit viewing someone on a deeper level. Even someone with a positive label receive some form of prejudice.

I am glad you are doing so well, and I love reading your well though out posts.

Feelings are fleeting.
Be better, not bitter.
Love the person, forgive the sin.