Gordie, without drama and I enjoy my time there I think husband needs time still... but I'm total fine with the way I live now.
Job, it's like there is a 13 years old boy and 44 years old man existing at the same time, it does make people confusing... sometimes he would act just like a teenager(but the time gets lesser) sometimes he is the man I know for decades. STILL - I'll keep my expectation to it's minimum !
I think husband needs time still... but I'm total fine with the way I live now. 
