Forgive me forum for I have sinned. 


When we first get here we think our situation is different.
The more we read, the more we see we are more similar than unique. 


When we arrive we look for that trick that technique to snap this stranger out of there trance. 
After a while, we realize that there is no trick and the best practice is to move ahead. 
To regain our own inner peace. It is then and only then that our changes have any chance at being noticed.


We all have value. It is just no longer seen by the one that we need so desperately to see it.


But all is not lost. 
These stitches do all come with gifts. The W may grant you the gift of time. 
Time for you to realize where we got off track. Time to detach from a toxic environment. 
To realize how we have lost ourselves. While becoming a unit enmeshed we often lose autonomy. 
Our codependence on people and emotions beyond our own control has come at a great price. 
It is now that we have the opportunity to fix ourselves. 


Perhaps they will notice. Perhaps they will see the error of their own ways. Hopefully, we will get out of the way in time. 


Either way, we will be changed.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.