Hey SKM, I hope you are doing okay? You'd last post was blank.

On the not speaking to each other thing. I was the queen of sulking and not talking when I was mad and I have been like that most of my life! I just found it very hard to talk to the person who I was mad right away.

I have recently realised what a waste of time it really is. Since my D and I have only each other for company now most of the time we have to get over fights and arguments much quicker otherwise it's very boring and lonely. I think once you start on that road and especially if you are both stubborn it becomes harder to get out of. This is something that I have had to work really hard at but sometimes someone has to break the deadlock.

Take care. X


Me - 47
H - 45
D-16
M - 6 years
Separated - May 16

Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')