ItHurts, just remember you are different people. There are so many women in my past that I found out years later were wanting me to ask them out, or kiss them, or make a first move. I was always the passive "Nice Guy", and missed out on many opportunities at potentially something special do that passivity. All of the girls I dated always were the aggressor. Including my W.
One of the 180s I need to consider is to be more assertive, even in my current MR. Once we seem to be on more solid footing, I need to step up and be the initiator of intimacy. And saying "Can we have sex?" is not what I am talking about.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
