The best thing you can do is to try not to focus on everything she says or does. The motto around here is believe nothing of what they say and only 50% of what they do.
She is going to have many, many days of being up and down and all around on the coaster. The best thing you can do is not to join her on the ride.
Keep the focus on you!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.