Well LH I feel like putting a move on her too soon would ruin any chance of R. At that point she' know I want her and usually that's the end of it. Plus a free posters here also said they felt making a move would be a bad idea. Maybe it's time for me to just try something with her and whatever happens happens. Well Steve back when we first got together she came up to me and asked me if I found her attractive at all. I said yes and she said well why don't you ever pay any attention to me? Then we started hanging out and then eventually became a couple. She always said she did that because it bothered her how all these other guys were hitting on her and I never did. I should add we were aqaintances though a mutual friend back then...so we weren't total strangers but I didn't really talk to her. Once she came up to me that night though we obviously got closer. So that's how we first got together. She also was the intitiator for our first sexual encounter back then too. So that's how we got together.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14