I am an IRL dater, I come across better IRL. I am 64 but am told I look a lot younger. Am very fit, shoulder length blonde hair, with big big boobs and a great smile (the pluses) and am work orientated, study motivated, muffin topped with curlie frizz (the minuses).
In my dating life I like guys who are fit and interested in life, who smile and are relatively easy going. Who will sit with a glass of anything and mooch, chat and eat pizza (or whatever). More moonlight than sunlight. I would like a dancer, non smoker and groomed. At least solvent with no compulsions and more than anything SINGLE.
The following aren't deal breakers, hair, height, location, looks (as long as he can kiss well......), pets, children, job and hobbies.
I find as I get to know someone this stuff pales away, but it takes time so gentle contact, less electronics and more getting together dates IRL. I probably won't date younger than 12 years or older than 3 depends on the guy. Usually not attracted to dark men, I seem to prefer pale like me. Red heads, phoaaaaa
Generally I flow with the guy, but bad breath and poor grooming put me off big time as does being controlling.
My great issue is that guys simply don't ask for a date, or if I do then come across as saying they aren't good enough for me. WTF?
I have to make very sure the guy knows I am interested in knowing more and sometimes really spell it out. After that it's down to them, so my great knowledge is..... you are interested please ask for a coffee date and have only a coffee date in mind. Then flow from there. It's coffee, if she says no then it's "you can't blame me for trying!" Then wink. Openers are dead simple after a while, anything weather, food or current affairs related. Even how good the coffee etc is.......
Go out, date, relax chat coffee, hookup, hang out and have fun.
If an old girl like V can get dates then so can a young sexy buck called Andrew.
Go get em, smile and wink.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
