Afraid of the dark

[Davide]

For sure. Our WWs are responsible for the ending of our relationships. They walked away rather than doing the work. That's on them. No matter what, I would have done a helluva lot more work before I ever considered leaving. You should never beat yourself up for someone else's (poor) choices.

It's just that you and I, and most people here, have so much power than we ever realized. Power over ourselves, our choices, our attitudes,our detachment, our ability to relate, our ability to set boundaries, our lives. There is so much power and freedom in that.