I am very aware of the victim mentality and its negative effects
But as I have been taking so much self accountability and blame on it was helpful to distribute that load and make some sense of a why


M 40 W 34
Together 7 Married 2
No Kids
BD 1/18 need space
Moved out 2/18
ILYBNILWY & Asked for D 3/18
W filed for D 6/18
D final 10/18