I am very aware of the victim mentality and its negative effects But as I have been taking so much self accountability and blame on it was helpful to distribute that load and make some sense of a why
M 40 W 34 Together 7 Married 2 No Kids BD 1/18 need space Moved out 2/18 ILYBNILWY & Asked for D 3/18 W filed for D 6/18 D final 10/18