And thank you for your response, AS. These are things I need to hear. They are things I already know, but sometimes when you start to doubt your thoughts, it helps to be reminded. L is actually on vacation right now. It was his assistant I spoke with. I set up a meeting with him next week when he gets back. They have the paperwork drafted, he just needs to look it over when he gets back. I will most likely tell him to go ahead and submit them then. I have a few questions I want to clear up with him before I pull the trigger. This is a huge decision, and I want to be sure I'm doing the right thing...


Me: 38
W:31
Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4
M: 10 years
T:12 years
BD:Jan 3, 2018
W moved out: Apr 13,2018
Filed for D: Jun 2018
D final: Sep 2019

"Surrender to the Flow"...