Keep working with the IC and on yourself. I have found that there is so much for me to work on independent of the relationship. There is so much room for growth in all of us. I guess that is what they mean by the "gift of time." It is such a great opportunity to make lasting improvements. The only caution I would have is with falling into a "victim" mentality. If I have learned anything over the past 6 weeks it is that I am far stronger than I ever knew. I felt like a victim before, but that was because I consciously or unconsciously gave up my own power. You are stronger than you think as well.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
