"I said everytime her casual talks have a way of rising my Blood pressure."

Wow, that is a huge mistake. You are supposed to be detaching which is showing her you are emotionally stable no matter what she says or does. To come out and tell her that casual talks with her has a physical effect on you is just giving it up. You are supposed to be the rock by the shore.

Just my two cents. As AS says if R is your goal and your WAW wants to talk, TALK. Even if it is just mostly listening, acknowledging, and validating her feelings. You missed an opportunity and it could been at a crucial time.

Now, I say all that, don't go crawling back to her begging to have the talk now. Just let it lie, but if and when that opportunity arises again, cease the opportunity. Just be sure to be fresh on the detachment and validation threads.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018