Originally Posted By: focus22
This time next week is my birthday. I will be 48 years old.

I'm starting to feel utterly disgusted with the way I was treated (perhaps also the way I **allowed** myself to be treated).

I actually feel like I'm going to throw up.

Perhaps I'm finally feeling angry with my XH.

It's taken this long.

I'm so glad I don't have to have anything more to do with him, or any of his drunken family.


Happy birthday!!!!! Treat yourself to a fun day/evening and celebrate all the good things in your life.

Everyone has their own timetable for how they do things, so maybe you are feeling angry. You are entitled to feel however you feel.


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids