But then, I also hear "you can't nice them back", waiting around while they suffer no consequence won't work, etc.
44tries,
The issue that most of us can't wrap our heads around is that our chances of reconciliation actually increase if we move on with our own lives and build a great life for ourselves. You're young and full of potential, use that potential. If she decides she wants to be with you, she'll let you know. If she doesn't want you back, no big deal, you've got your own happy life and you can move on. Reconciliation or not, you still have a great life. Why is that so hard to understand?
