44 you are in a very tough spot- I hope things work out for you. I do have a question about in house separation. I was told by an IC that in house separations will work because the WAS gets to see the transformation in the LBS occur right before them and gets to see that changes have been maintained. The IC also said that 80% of separations end in D. For the good folks that are here- what is your read on this? Sorry to hijack your stitch 44 but I am curious to find out.
No problem, LoneWlf. I'm curious too because I see a lot of logic for both sides of the argument. I always hear "don't leave the home", chances drop dramatically, etc. More chances to convince them things could be different, etc. But then, I also hear "you can't nice them back", waiting around while they suffer no consequence won't work, etc.
M: 26 W: 26 M: 1.5 T: 3 No kids BD: 31 March 2018
W's affair began: 23 March 2018 Affair confirmed: 18 April 2018 Confrontation/claims she ended A: 14 May 2018 Ended in-house separation: July 2018
