Thank you AnotherStander.

I absolutely hear what you are saying and your advice was a wake-up call for me! However, I believe that I am just a breath away from the perfect marriage with the perfect husband and I want to try to understand how I can best nurture our relationship- seeing clearly (more so than ever before) that I haven't been. It is this desire that drove me, by chance, back here.

I find it sobering that so many people wish they had laid down the gauntlet years before rather than stuggling on. I hope I won't be one of those in 5 years time!


Me 49y H 52y
T23 y
M17 y
??EA June 2012 with younger co-worker
children 8-12