I mved out because she was demonstrating many MLC signs and told me she needed me to for her mental health, she was treating me badly in front of the kids and as I love them all so much I wanted them to have some peace. I realise this might have been the wrong decision now.
I know it wasn't a PA as it is with her XH who is in the US, we are in the UK. I have learnt the term cakeeating and am aware I am facilitating this at the moment - just hard to stop, as I don't like the alternatives. I'm stil coming to terms with how long this is really going to take.
LBH 47 WW 47, M 15 T 18 D 11 S 14 BD, I moved out (duped) Jan 18 3 yr EA with ex-H discovered: Feb 18 I moved back in: Aug 18 (against her wishes) ...No R No M/C, continued limbo, dropping the rope!