Hello Gerda. I am thinking about you, following along.

You are one busy lady and have a lot on your plate. You also have a lot of strength and conviction. I was glad to read that you were away for the weekend. I do hope you got a break from all the stress.

I agree with you, H does not make a very good business partner right now. Good idea to keep him away from the client emails.

I do like the spreadsheet idea. It would be a nice way to deflect some of that anger and maybe stop or diminish those circular conversation regarding finances.

Feelings are fleeting.
Be better, not bitter.
Love the person, forgive the sin.