Yes, for me it's about doing it for the right reasons. I know I'm not fully detached, because I'm sometimes doing in hopes that WW notices and changes. So I need to keep reminding myself why I'm doing it - for me.

And I'm secretly hoping Sandi2 comments on my situation too...but I have read a lot of her posts, so those help a lot. I'm trying to figure out whether or not to validate.

H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.