If you're at your own home every day, why not live there? Did you do something so egregious that you can't live in your own house? I bet your wife loves having the benefit of you without the presence of you. I bet the OM loves that too, but maybe he is just indifferent.
Don't worry about her right now, focus on you. You can't control her. She hasn't talked about your M or R because she's having an affair, most likely.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
