I went back and read the detachment thread. I need to work on that and finding some activities that are truly fun. I have been GAL and stopping pursuit, but I think I need to be working on myself more. Just a thought, and something I talked about with my sister last night.
Since we have no kids, I am trying to be active each weeknight. It really does help me detach because then I'm not at home on the "battlefield" where there are all these emotions. I am still affected by the things WW says, and need to keep detaching so I can choose how I want to act/react as opposed to taking an auto pilot type of reaction.
Thanks for the support everyone.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.