W sent an email that she wants to schedule the mediator and sent an email to them. They sent an email back saying they don't do 30 minute appointments. They only do 1 or 2 hour appointments and ask that you have most ideas put down prior to the meeting. Based on the email I received, my W did not read any of this. It also says in the agreement that they will give zero advice to either side, are impartial and will remain that way. I believe she didn't read that either. They also said that they charge $200 per hour that is split by both parties. Fairly certain she didn't read that one! (expectation is that I would pay for all of it!).
She said "what do you think and we can talk about it later".
What do I think? I think this is crazy. Ok, got that out.
So, some feedback please.
Do I point out these issues? or just blindly go in there (I am not blind and already know what I would/wouldn't agree to) with her?
I want her to do the heavy lifting on this and I am fairly certain she still has no plan (based on our weekend conversation) as to where she is going and how she is going to pay for it. Right now she just wants to get out. Wants a fresh start, etc. etc. etc. blah blah blah...
M51 W44 T21 M18 D14 S11 BD date 9/17 W filed 02/18 W withdrew petition following week In house separation 03/18 In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18 W is moving out by mid Nov 2018 A drawing up paperwork 11/18
