Hi all, I am moving from an older thread that had too much personal info. Summarizing my sitch -
H of 10 years starts to shut down when D is 7 weeks old. Initially when I confront him says he is done with this life, with me, 2 kids, our home and life with me overall. Every subsequent conversation has been him blaming me, full of resentment and anger and not taking any responsibility for this. Says he had depression last year and I wasnt available to help during my pregnancy. Based on our cultural background, extended family intervened and H reached out to some friends too but he is not willing to change his mind and wants immediate D. I want to keep the marriage at any cost since I still feel this is a crisis that can be overcome and our Ds need a happy home with parents and not part time mom and dad. No proof of EA/PA but has been very secretive with a new phone that he got after BD. H wants me to move to a new state post D, says better job opportunities and environment for kids. I have been through denial, depression, hell on earth and currently osciallate between depression and acceptance. Minimal GAL with 2 small children, have been trying to do 180s but have taken some baits. H's animosity has not decreased, switched overnight from being a patient person for 15 years to an eruptive volcano. Is a good father to D3, has slowly started accepting baby after she turned 4 months. Hoping to get help and support from all of you to somehow work a miracle and save my family for my Ds.
