Guys, my husband just called from his work to ask how I'm feeling today (I've been sick) and to say he's feeling so bad he didn't spend much time with our daughter this weekend so he'll be back within ten days and will spend the whole time with her.
I don't know. My sense is that he may not be trying to fix things with me but he's becoming cognizant of how his actions affect our daughter.
I'd also guess that the relationship my husband has been in with the younger nurse hasn't progressed, or isn't as serious now, because when he met her he disappeared for over a month altogether and could care less how that impacted us.
I'm not saying that anything significant has happened, but for members like Arsh and others who's husbands left angry and spiteful and blaming them and their kids for everything - I do think at some point these rogue spouses start to return to reality. I'd still love an apology from my husband regardless of whether we're ever together again but it may be a while before that happens.