Can I really do this #2

[Dtrmned]

Owned it and have forgiven myself for the things that were within my control. This is her decision and I believe you have chimed in on the advice to let her drive the train, do the heavy lifting and let her realize her new reality.

Oh, and I often think back to Sandi2's comment that she is not my responsibility any longer, that my W "fired" me from that position.

These next few weeks will be interesting as the kids will now be home for the summer full time and how this is going to affect her moods, attitudes, personal time, etc.

Stay tuned summer campers! Class V rapids up ahead. Good part for me. I'm standing on the side watching the raft headed down the river. I refuse to get sucked into fights, arguments, R talks, etc. IF she ever changes and refocuses, THEN we can talk.